Some of you may be familiar with the proverb of the
fisherman. It goes something like this. There was once a fisherman who spent
the morning fishing and the afternoon sleeping with his wife and playing with
his kids.
One day he is visited by a Western businessman who tells him that instead of lazing around he should work all afternoon.
'Why?' Asks the fisherman
‘Because then you would make enough money to employ a
second staff member.’
'Why would I want to do that?' Asks the fisherman
‘Because then you could make more money and eventually
you could buy a second boat.’
Why would I want to do that?
‘Because with a second boat you could make more profit
and eventually buy a whole fleet. You could be a fisher-king!’
'Why would I want to be a fisher-king?'
‘Because eventually you’d be so rich you could retire and
spend time with your wife and kids.’
Get it?
Many people think this story is profound. But while it
has some merits is also obfuscates a great deal of important factors.
For one, it completely discounts the journey aspect of
life. It assumes that the only thing of value in life is leisure, and
unproductive leisure at that. While becoming a baron of the seas may indeed be
vacuous that does not mean that working hard to achieve goals isn’t a
distinctly pleasurable and meaningful activity.
Some people may be well served by aiming for a life of
leisure and/or prioritising their family over work. I have commented many times
on the foolishness of prioritising unfulfilling work over fulfilling human
connections.
But other people will be much better served by throwing
themselves into their ‘work’ 100 per cent; though a better word for work would
be ‘projects’.
‘Projects’ are an important concept. For the fisherman
his project is his family. For the Western businessman his project is making
money. The businessman may be working under false pretences, but he also may
not. Some people genuinely love money and things.
It is important to distinguish between what makes life
meaningful and what makes life pleasant. A large amount of effort, including
materialist effort to get more money, is devoted to removing suffering from
your life. A more comfortable couch, a better healthcare plan, and larger house
and many other material goods make life more pleasant, but they don’t make life
more meaningful.
By the same token, completing marathons, climbing
Everest, being elected to parliament, getting a promotion, completing a
university degree and watching all 1001 movies you must see before you die make
life more meaningful, but they aren’t necessarily pleasant experiences.
Think about what you want to prioritise in life and
acknowledge that the question is complex and entirely subjective. Is money
important to you? Is family important to you? What about travelling?
Simple proverbs are just that—simple.
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